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One teenage boy was discovered deceased just days following being falsely blamed of taking the cremated remains of a deceased infant during a burglary, a coroner's inquiry has heard.

Tragic Discovery

The young boy's parents discovered his remains in his room at his Connah's Quay residence on November 19th, 2021.

False Accusations Start

The inquest heard how his mother got a message on 8 November 2021 via social media, from a woman asking if her son was her child. The communication stated: "Tell him thanks for breaking into my flat."

In a statement presented to the proceedings, the mother said the woman had been in the news, claiming her infant's remains had been stolen in a burglary - a allegation which was false.

Law Enforcement Inquiry

An official inquiry from authorities later concluded the alleged break-in victim had "provided false information" and "it now appears that the property was not taken in the beginning".

News coverage about the supposed stolen remains generated online responses, and although Kai was not identified in the messages, his parent said people "understood it was him".

The "online posts were really upsetting", she stated.

Emotional Health Effect

She explained that Kai had been diagnosed with mild ADHD, and as part of that disorder, other individuals' views really were important to him.

"It would have hurt him deeply," she commented, "particularly when this was not true".

The teenager was arrested at home, but nothing was discovered. He was taken to a police station and later freed under investigation.

Police said they would be in touch, the hearing heard, but had failed to reached out to the family by the moment of his death.

Isolation and Worry

His parent said Kai "became isolated" after the detention and "repeatedly inquired me whether I had received anything from the police", because his condition meant sometimes "certain periods could feel like much longer".

When she talked to him about the supposed incident, she said her child informed her he had entered the residence because the resident who lived there had said he could use the bathroom whenever he wanted, but denied taking anything.

Digital Bullying

In a combined testimony between her and her husband, the mother said her child was being bullied online after the allegations.

The inquest learned that a 19-year-old encouraged the teenager to kill himself.

She had no worries on the night before he died, describing how she had listened to him "chuckling and teasing".

She portrayed him as a "caring, affectionate" boy, and said her "relatives is completely shattered".

He had been "clearly concealing his concerns", she stated, noting that he could not stand to have anybody "think bad of him".

School Reaction

The hearing received testimony from school staff at Connah's Quay secondary school.

On November 8th, she "overheard some boys talking that Kai had been detained and that was the initial I learned".

"He informed me... he'd done nothing wrong," she added.

After the discussion, the staff member said she called Kai's family telephone and provided a voicemail saying she had spoken to the student about the accusations.

The proceedings heard his parents said they did not receive that message.

Formal Conclusion

Senior coroner informed the hearing he would await reports regarding what improvements had been made to dealing with individuals with the condition, before determining whether he should make a avoidance of future deaths report.

Delivering a narrative conclusion, he said: "Around 8 November 2021, unsupported allegations were made against the teenager, a 14-year-old child.

"Probably falsehoods were afterwards exaggerated and exaggerated through the medium of social media.

"During 11 November, he was interviewed by the authorities and following his questioning he was freed while inquiries continued."

The official concluded: "There is no proof that the actions or omissions of any agency caused or added to his death and although it was the result of a personal act it is impossible to determine his intent."